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Newsletter for March 2001

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When forgiveness gets a bad name

Ex-President Bill Clinton may well have seriously abused the office's provisions for merciful pardon.  A number of 'friends' seem to have bought judicial clemency by donating large amounts of money to the Clintons or the Democratic party.  His brother-in-law Hugh Rodham is under investigation concerning receiving money for brokering one - perhaps many - act(s) of clemency.

Very sadly, this episode illustrates how forgiveness can be cheapened.  If the Clintons were the direct victims of drug-related crimes or embezzlement, for them to publicly forgive the debts owed them by the perpetrators would be inspiring.  (As was their work to lead the US and World Bank to forgive many countries their international debt.)

But having the power to forgive is more than the power to take a decision or write a pardon.  None of the releases from prosecution or prison had the support of the penal or legal services - and the Clinton group simply diverted the pardons past the Justice Department.  

Pardon, clemency and mercy are not single, isolated actions.    They need a context of renewed minds and hearts.  They must include the power and the personal freedom and authority to live out transformed relationships in society ... and to lead other members of one's society or community - victims and perpetrators - into changed, more creative relationships.

(ForgivenessNet explores this issue very fully.  If you want to use the site for this, good starting places are The dimensions of Forgiveness �/font> and The power to initiate forgiveness �/a>.)

A more convenient way?

But then we live in a world where forgiveness is so easily commercialised.  The end always seems to justify the means.   Philip Noble sent us a smile-inducing reminder:

A few years ago Loren Harris, a young entrepreneur in California turned our need for forgiveness into a business opportunity by founding a company called Apology Accepted.  For a fee, his company will apologise and ask forgiveness for you. 

Harris says, "We're the Pierre Cardin of apology.  Whatever it takes, we provide - from a box of chocolates to a yacht."   

(Related by John Westfall in Enough is Enough)

Andrew Knock

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